There is not much of a difference between a same sex divorce as opposed to what is known as a "traditional divorce". Since the approval of gay marriage, same sex couples have been able to get married and like anyone else, if they decide to part ways have to go through the same divorce process. The same issues also exist such as property division, child support and -pet ownership amongst a wide array of issues to be discussed.
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A Fair Way Mediation was one of the first mediation practices in San Diego to help gay couples achieve a peaceful and affordable diorce. We are very active in the San Diego LGBTQ community and have had the pleasure of being featured in various same sex magazines and associations.
Divorce Help
No matter the scenario, divorce can be stressful on both individuals, and if lawyers get involved it can really create a contentious process that could last months. The back and forth arguing through lawyers is exhausting, outside of the fact that they are charging you hourly to relay these discussions. With a divorce lawyer, each side wants to win at all costs. Rather, with divorce mediatoin there is a compromise that needs to be worked based on the needs and desires of each side. With proper communication things will be out and in front of you both so you know what needs to be done and work together so that you can both move on with your lives.
We always make sure to let clients know, WE DO NOT TAKE SIDES. This gives couples the the comfort level in knowing they'll be heard and the mediator won't be pushing one out so the other gets more benefit, this will never be the case. The ultimate goal is to allow you both to move on with your lives in a peaceful manner!
Testimonial
“As a gay couple going through a divorce, we really weren’t sure who to go with to help and a lot of lawyers wanted a good amount of money to take on the divorce. We found Rich on GayPages and immediately felt comfortable with him, and we appreciate his help!” Jeff & Shawn – San Diego
Even if a lawsuit has begun and the parties have become embroiled in the litigatio proceedings, or perhaps the dispute is still in the pre-litigation stage, you can still consider divoce mediation as an alternative to litigation to resolve the disputes and issues at hand.
The highly-trained and experienced staff at A Fair Way Mediation will help you both through the major disputes at hand to successfull negotiate a mutually acceptable resolution. We can do this at an affordable rate and without the stress!
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THE HUMAN APPROACH TO DIVORCE: INSIGHTS INTO MEDIATION
Divorce is a difficult and emotionally challenging process that marks the end of a significant chapter in one's life. The traditional approach to divorce often involves lengthy court battles, escalating tensions, and significant emotional and financial strain on both parties involved. But that approach is a thing of the past, there is an alternative, more human-centered method of navigating this tumultuous period: mediation.
A NEW BEGINNING: THE BENEFITS OF DIVORCE MEDIATION
Divorce is an emotionally challenging chapter in many people's lives, that often comes with tension, disagreements, and uncertainty about the future. While the process can be adversarial and draining, there's an alternative that offers a more peaceful and constructive approach to resolving differences: divorce mediation. This method is gaining popularity due to its numerous benefits for couples navigating the complexities of separation.
Why Couples Turn to Mediation
Encourages Communication
Unlike traditional divorce proceedings that can create further conflict, mediation encourages open dialogue between the spouses. By providing a supportive environment, the San Diego divorce mediation team at A Fair Way Mediation promotes effective communication allowing both parties to express their concerns and needs in a positive manner. This approach helps couples maintain a peaceful relationship, even more so when children are involved. Your San Diego divorce mediator will act as a neutral 3rd part to help sort through the issues that need to be discussed and agreed upon, giving plenty of time for each side to express their goals and work to a solution. Oftentimes with litigation, couples end up having to communicate directly with their respective lawyers which can increase the amount of time to complete the divorce and lose the ability to convey their thoughts and needs accurately to the other spouse.
Decision-Making Power
Mediation also gives couples more control over the decisions that will impact their futures. Rather than having to rely on a judge to make a final determination that will dictate your future, mediation allows couples to participate in negotiations to reach mutually agreed upon solutions. This level of control reduces the feeling of helplessnes and leads to greater satisfaction with the final settlement. Most marriages have issues that couples specifically understand for themselves, and it's difficult to have to present a case in front of a judge who does not fully understand the intricacies of your marriage and that will ultimately decide your fate based information that is provided by the respective lawyers.
About A Fair Way Mediation
As one of Southern California's top divorce mediators, A Fair Way Mediation has helped 100s of couples to obtain an affordable and peaceful divorce without going to court. We save our clients thousands of dollars in litigation fees and specialize in all forms of divorce mediation including military divorce and same sex divorce mediation. Our divorce mediators are skilled in all the facets of mediation and will guide you through the process. We provide divorce mediation services for couples throughout San Diego, Palm Springs, Riverside County and Rancho Mirage, Temecula, and Cathedral City.
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