Rancho Mirage same sex divorce is becoming very common for couples who are seeking to part ways. We’ve proudly helped many same sex couples come to a peaceful and amicable divorce. Divorce Mediation can not only save you thousands of dollars in lawyer fees, but also will keep you both out of court. We’ve found more often than not, couples are able to discuss divorce matters in a peaceful manner, and can simply have a mediator sort out the details and avoid court altogether!
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Same sex couples are legally allowed to get married and the marriages of same sex couples are simply marriages. Same sex couples are entitled to the same due process and full protection under the law as anyone else. There are obviously emerging issues that come up in a same sex divorce that are unique and can pose complications, but the law is the same.
Factors to Consider
Is the divorce contested or uncontested;
The length of the marriage;
The age, mental and physical condition of each spouse;
The assets accumulated during the marriage;
Are there any children born of the marriage;
If there are children involved, what will the custody/visitation and child support obligations be;
The parental responsibilities of each party during the marriage
The respective earning power of each party in the marriage;
The taxable income of each party;
The contributions of each party during the marriage;
Any other relevant factor affecting the parties.
It’s important to remember that same sex couples going through a divorce will need similar services as any other couple. There’s a trend to treat same sex divorces and the accompanying family law issues affecting same sex couples as something different or “other”.
But that is the wrong approach. Same sex divorces are treated the same under the law. Having a mediator that understands that and approaches your case from a perspective of equality and dignity will go a long way in resolving your divorce proceedings to your satisfaction.
Contested v. Uncontested Divorce
A contested divorce is the more complex of the two. In a contested divorce, sometimes called a litigated divorce, the two spouses are engaged in a lawsuit in which they are subject to disclosure of their finances, taxes and debts, mediation, depositions and ultimately a trial. A judge will ultimately decide the issues of child custody, child support and property division, if the parties do not reach a resolution.
An uncontested divorce is when the parties are in agreement on all the major issues: child custody, child support and property division. This is obviously much easier and cheaper to attain. It is simply a matter of working with the clients to ensure that they are legally protected in the future and that the plan submitted works best for their children and themselves.
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A NEW BEGINNING: THE BENEFITS OF DIVORCE MEDIATION
Divorce is an emotionally challenging chapter in many people's lives, that often comes with tension, disagreements, and uncertainty about the future. While the process can be adversarial and draining, there's an alternative that offers a more peaceful and constructive approach to resolving differences: divorce mediation. This method is gaining popularity due to its numerous benefits for couples navigating the complexities of separation.
About A Fair Way Mediation
As one of Southern California's top divorce mediators, A Fair Way Mediation has helped 100s of couples to obtain an affordable and peaceful divorce without going to court. We save our clients thousands of dollars in litigation fees and specialize in all forms of divorce mediation including military divorce and same sex divorce mediation. Our divorce mediators are skilled in all the facets of mediation and will guide you through the process. We provide divorce mediation services for couples throughout San Diego, Palm Springs, Riverside County and Rancho Mirage, Temecula, and Cathedral City.
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Why Couples Turn to Mediation
Encourages Communication
Unlike traditional divorce proceedings that can create further conflict, mediation encourages open dialogue between the spouses. By providing a supportive environment, the San Diego divorce mediation team at A Fair Way Mediation promotes effective communication allowing both parties to express their concerns and needs in a positive manner. This approach helps couples maintain a peaceful relationship, even more so when children are involved. Your San Diego divorce mediator will act as a neutral 3rd part to help sort through the issues that need to be discussed and agreed upon, giving plenty of time for each side to express their goals and work to a solution. Oftentimes with litigation, couples end up having to communicate directly with their respective lawyers which can increase the amount of time to complete the divorce and lose the ability to convey their thoughts and needs accurately to the other spouse.
Decision-Making Power
Mediation also gives couples more control over the decisions that will impact their futures. Rather than having to rely on a judge to make a final determination that will dictate your future, mediation allows couples to participate in negotiations to reach mutually agreed upon solutions. This level of control reduces the feeling of helplessnes and leads to greater satisfaction with the final settlement. Most marriages have issues that couples specifically understand for themselves, and it's difficult to have to present a case in front of a judge who does not fully understand the intricacies of your marriage and that will ultimately decide your fate based information that is provided by the respective lawyers.