Murrieta Divorce Mediator

For over 4 decades A Fair Way Mediation has been helping couples in Murrieta and throughout Southern California obtain a peaceful and affordable divorce. We know that divorce can be a very stressful process and take an emotional toll on both individuals, but both of you are ready to part ways and move on with your lives. Divorce doesn't have to be stressful though, divorce mediation provides a wonderful solution to finalizing the divorce without having to go to court or riding out a long drawn out litigated process. There are a variety of reasons to choose mediation over litigation which we will go in to further below. Overall, if you and your spouse need help and would like a fair and affordable divorce, we have the experience having helped 100s of couples to avoid court and divorce peacefully.

For a no cost consultation, please fill out our Start Evaluation form or give us a call!

619-985-2357

So What Is Divorce Mediaton?

While most couples assume the way to get a divorce is for each party to hire a divorce lawyer that will manage the communication between the 2 parties to come up with a finalized agreement. While that may seem so easy, with litigation, its often not. Divorce mediation provides a different approach to the divorce process. This involves a mutual 3rd party to help "mediate" the communication directly with you both, taking the time to get a full understand of each individuals goals and desires, navigating the issues that need to be worked out such as retirement assets, real estate assets, child support (if applies), child custody, and even pet mediation in some cases!

Couples can seek mediation services on their own or they may be court-ordered in some cases. When mediation begins, there will be several joint meetings between the 2 spouses in which the the issues will be directly discussed and each person heard. This stops unnecessary communication if lawyers are used which ultimately results in higher lawyer fees when things could ultimately be worked out in a rational and civil manner. We will always work hard to be the best Murrieta divorce mediator in the industry!

While mediation may not be able to resolve each and every issue, it allows couples to focus on the most important issues at hand and the smaller unresolved matters can be discussed either in a court, but preferably everything is settled so you simply have to turn in the MSA - marital settlement agreement. We also provide military divorce mediation services.

Benefits of Murrieta Divorce Mediation

There are a variety of benefits that come with using a divorce mediator, one of the top benefits why couples choose mediation is avoiding having to go to court. Divorce is already stressful, and going to court to plead your case to a judge is even more stressful. When your divorce is taken to court it also becomes public record, when things are settled with a mediator the entire process and the final agreement are kept private. On top of this, you never know which way a judge will decide without really knowing all the nuances of your marriage, so you're ultimately leaving your future in the hands of a judge.

Overall costs of divorce mediation plays a very important role when going the mediation route. Couples who go the litigation route and each get their own lawyers tend to spend about $20,000+ per person because you have to hire your own lawyer to represent you. Often times the same communication can be done with a divorce mediator and the final cost ranges on average between $3,000 - $7,000 which is split between the couple. In most cases the same result will come at the end and you and your spouse control the amount of time spent in mediation meetings.

With the help of the experienced and trained divorce mediators with A Fair Way Mediation, couples have the ability to negotiate their own settlement. Ultimately it allows couples to retain control over the outcome that will affect their lives.

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THE HUMAN APPROACH TO DIVORCE: INSIGHTS INTO MEDIATION

Divorce is a difficult and emotionally challenging process that marks the end of a significant chapter in one's life. The traditional approach to divorce often involves lengthy court battles, escalating tensions, and significant emotional and financial strain on both parties involved. But that approach is a thing of the past, there is an alternative, more human-centered method of navigating this tumultuous period: mediation.

A NEW BEGINNING: THE BENEFITS OF DIVORCE MEDIATION

Divorce is an emotionally challenging chapter in many people's lives, that often comes with tension, disagreements, and uncertainty about the future. While the process can be adversarial and draining, there's an alternative that offers a more peaceful and constructive approach to resolving differences: divorce mediation. This method is gaining popularity due to its numerous benefits for couples navigating the complexities of separation.

About A Fair Way Mediation

As one of Southern California's top divorce mediators, A Fair Way Mediation has helped 100s of couples to obtain an affordable and peaceful divorce without going to court. We save our clients thousands of dollars in litigation fees and specialize in all forms of divorce mediation including military divorce and same sex divorce mediation. Our divorce mediators are skilled in all the facets of mediation and will guide you through the process. We provide divorce mediation services for couples throughout San Diego, Palm Springs, Riverside County and Rancho Mirage, Temecula, and Cathedral City.

We offer a no cost consultation, please fill out our "Start Evaluation" form or give us a call!

619-985-2357

Why Couples Turn to Mediation

Encourages Communication

Unlike traditional divorce proceedings that can create further conflict, mediation encourages open dialogue between the spouses. By providing a supportive environment, the San Diego divorce mediation team at A Fair Way Mediation promotes effective communication allowing both parties to express their concerns and needs in a positive manner. This approach helps couples maintain a peaceful relationship, even more so when children are involved. Your San Diego divorce mediator will act as a neutral 3rd part to help sort through the issues that need to be discussed and agreed upon, giving plenty of time for each side to express their goals and work to a solution. Oftentimes with litigation, couples end up having to communicate directly with their respective lawyers which can increase the amount of time to complete the divorce and lose the ability to convey their thoughts and needs accurately to the other spouse.

Decision-Making Power

Mediation also gives couples more control over the decisions that will impact their futures. Rather than having to rely on a judge to make a final determination that will dictate your future, mediation allows couples to participate in negotiations to reach mutually agreed upon solutions. This level of control reduces the feeling of helplessnes and leads to greater satisfaction with the final settlement. Most marriages have issues that couples specifically understand for themselves, and it's difficult to have to present a case in front of a judge who does not fully understand the intricacies of your marriage and that will ultimately decide your fate based information that is provided by the respective lawyers.

Cost-Effective and Time-Efficient

Compared to a traditional litigated divorce, mediation is cost-effective alternative. The streamlined process that mediation provides can significantly reduce the legal fees. While litigation costs for a divorce can easily exceed $25,000+ per person, the average cost of a mediated divorce ranges from $3500 - $7000 (depending on the complexity of the case and the couple's ability to communicate). Mediation also provides a time-efficient solution as the average time to mediate a divorce can range from 3 weeks to 3 months, on average. With litigation, it can take up to 8 months to simply get your first hearing in front of the judge depending on the court's backlog. Couples are looking to move on and don't want the process to last longer than it needs to be which is why most couples turn to mediation.

For a no cost consultation, please fill out our "Start Evaluation" form or give us a call!

619-985-2357