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While many divorce mediators and divorce lawers approach an LGBT divorce like its something completely different than a "traditional" divorce, this is actually not the case.  The law allows for gay marriage so when an LGBT couple is looking for a divorce, it will be treated the same way and you will have the same rights and the same issues to work out as anyone else.  A Fair Way Mediation was one of the first LGBT mediation providers in Southern California, having been showcased in LGBT newspapers, we have worked with various organizations in the community.  We can help you navigate the divorce process and come to a peaceful and affordable final outcome.

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What haven't really changed are the issues which are basically the same in heterosexual and same sex marriages. Money, infidelity, health issues, "irreconcilable differences"- all play a part in the breakdown of a relationship.

All couples have unique situations. However, there are still a unique set of challenges in resolving problems in gay and lesbian marriages. Same sex couples have issues not faced by traditional relationships. We know how to handle the obstacles that may occur during the course of same sex legal separations, termination of domestic partnerships and divorces. 

Affordable LGBT Divorce Mediation Help


When you decide to go the "litigation" route, this can create a wide array of complex issues.  One of the first reasons couples choose mediation is that it is a very affordable alternative to a traditional lawyer.  With divorce lawyers, the cost for each individual can easily exceed $25,000+ per person, whereas divorce mediation is around $3500 - $6500 on average, depending on how complex the divorce is and how well you both will be able to communicate to come to an agreement.  

 Cohabitation agreements are another important tool used by many same-sex couples. These agreements are similar to prenuptial agreements, but are intended for those who are unable to or choose not to marry. Items that can be addressed in cohabitation agreements include:

Division of property upon separation
Post-relationship financial support obligations
Child custody or visitation schedules

Estate Planning For LGBT Couples


Mediator Rich Gordon represents LGBT couples in all estate planning matters. This includes drafting wills, establishing trusts and guiding estate representatives through the probate process. He also helps clients draft durable powers of attorney and advance health care directives, which are invaluable tools as you and your partner reach your twilight years.

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